Getting Feedback is Hard and it's not because your Friends Hate You
I was talking to a friend the other night about sharing creative works. Art, coding, writing, or whatever and how often stuff just gets nothing back in return outside of maybe a few emojis and a "Good Work", and how demotivating that can feel. I mentioned that, at this point, it doesn't bother me to much and after telling her why it doesn't bother me I was like... hey idk maybe I should write this down. I know a lot of peopl...
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I loved Shenzhen IO, but I loved it's solitaire even more. I remember "Win 10 games" feeling impossible and the game's fictional creator being basically like "idk maybe it's too hard but have you tried getting good?" but s...
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This will be a work in progress I’m sure and something that’ll change over time.
A big problem, with complicated gender stuff, at least for me, is my desire to not overly burden people. Someone sees he/she/they and they can feel like it’s mine field… and for a lot of people it might be, while being equally frustrating to the person trying to express themselves. I, by comparison, feel lucky.
For years I sucked down my gender feelings, going “Well if I’m mostly a guy, all this girl stuff i...
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I figure some of you here would like this, as a lot of the my fellow cohosters are also filled with that post internet boom disillusionment.
My webspace is old. Like, really old. I have files on my webserver that were put there before some of my younger friends were were even born. No lie!

A set of coppermine php gallery files from 2003 to host my old art. Thanks to a close friend, who has always helped provide me with space on her various servers and VMs, I have had file continuity fo...
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