Of late, I’ve gotten a lot of comments from people on various forums, accusing me of ‘not having fun’. Or people construing my opinions on things as attack on how they have fun (or by saying I simply don’t get why it’s fun). So to make a few things clear.
I do not (usually) judge people on how they have fun. In fact I don’t usually judge people, I judge games
I might be a little sassy sometimes, but any serious criticism I lodge is toward games. Regardless of them being fun, the things a game do right or wrong can generally be quantified. Theres a bit of subjectiveness to this, but it is still relatively easy to make semi-objective quality statements.
Something being good does not necessarily make it fun and something being fun does not necessarily make it good
When was the last time you had fun watching Schindler’s List? or can you say that the Kung Fu movie you just watched is actually a “Good” movie? This is pretty typical of things. We have fun playing shitty, cheap flash games and somehow also don’t always enjoy greately crafted experiences like Shadow of the Colossus. Thats perfectly fine! We all have our little knobs and dials in our head that trigger disgust and enjoyment differently. Objectively judging things though, you try and figure out what is well designed about something and, in a way, whats worth replicating, while also figuring out what detracted from the experience. I still managed to enjoy Other M despite my harshing on it, because the controls of the game were enough for me to enjoy my self despite the rest of the crap that is in the game.
As such, I don’t care if you like a game I think is objectively bad. Not only can I possibly be wrong, even if I’m not, I’d be a HYPOCRITE for doing so. Though, when someone defends their game and does it poorly, I will also criticize their argument, but the argument of “I just find it fun” will almost always win, unless you like something ABSURDLY stupid.
Just because I am serious does not mean I don’t have Fun
I recently had an argument over the validity of 3v3 Starcraft 2. My position was that it’s degenerate and someone argued otherwise. The person I was arguing with was actually rather reasonable about it, but someone else came in and accused me of not having fun.
3v3 being degenerate(regardless of whether it is or not, it feels that way to me) prevents me from having fun. Mashing buttons in some goofy game or playing some silly game type is not at all fun to me, though I can understand that these things might be to other people. I mean, people like things that are goofy and silly all the time, but when it comes to games, I don’t. I find the fun those types of games provide to be too shallow for me. Assuming they are as shallow as I’m implying, who cares? Theres nothing wrong with liking shallow things (it’s more important to just recognize them for what they are). In fact, if all you ever enjoy are deep and sophisticated things, you’re probably pretty boring! Even I’ll indulge a dumb game now and then.
In sort, do not EVER accuse someone of not having fun. Also please don’t accuse me of being too serious and judgmental on how people have fun (even though I haven’t) and then judge me for how I have fun. Because even if I were being judgmental, you’re then viewing fun as monolithically as I was. Also don’t get butthurt if I make an argument that your game of choice sucks. Defend it, if you wish and think I’m wrong — I welcome that — but never think I think LESS of you for enjoying it…. Unless it’s like some old CD Barbie adventure game or something. Then I will definitely judge you.